Through today’s blog I will discuss about the most important topic of human life, marriage. That’s why people want the life partner who comes in their life to be full of all virtues. Marriage is a relationship between two person that binds them together for the next 7 births.Whether marriage is love or arranged, there are always some things such that marriage is done only after its completion.The most important of these is Horoscope matching (कुंडली मिलान) . According to our elders and some experienced people, Horoscope matching (कुंडली मिलान) before marriage is very important for a happy married life.
My motive behind writing this blog is that if the family members are not getting any qualified astrologer but want to take quick decision for their boy or girl, they can easily match their Horoscope matching (कुंडली मिलान) at home. I will share with you some important points, through which you can get Horoscope matching (कुंडली मिलान) done in the right way.
1. Lagn matching (लग्न मिलान)
If the boy’s Lagn is starting from an odd number i.e. 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 or 11, then it has to be kept in mind that the girl’s lagn is also starting from an odd number. If the Lagn of a boy starts from an even number and that of a girl starts from an odd number then it will not be a good match. If the lagn of both is different, one is even and the other is odd, the differences are likely to persist for entire life.
2. Raashi matching (राशि मिलान)
Same formula should apply here too, if the boy’s raashi is starting from an odd number i.e. 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 or 11, then it has to be kept in mind that the girl’s raashi is also starting from an odd number. If the raashi of a boy starts from an even number and that of a girl starts from an odd number then it will not be a good match. If the signs of both are different, one is even and the other is odd, then there is a possibility of obstruction in the birth of the child. We can understand this with an example, suppose the boy’s Raashi is Aries and the girl’s Raashi is Taurus, then what will be the problem in this stage, it will be a hindrance in the birth of the child. Because in the scriptures, Jupiter is considered the factor of children.
Talking about the present time, Jupiter is transiting in Aquarius at this time. If we talk about the girl’s Raashi , then her Raashi is Taurus and Jupiter is transiting in the tenth house from the girl’s Raahi , which is not making any kind of relation with the child’s house,If we look at the boy’s Raashi , then he belongs to Aries and Jupiter is transiting in the 11th house from his Raashi , from where Jupiter is directly making relation with his fifth house (संतान भाव). This means that if the marriage takes place with people of different zodiac signs, then it may be that “Santan/Child yoga” is being formed from the Raashi of one but not from the other.
3. Ashtkoot matching (अष्टकूट मिलान)
The matching of Varna, Vashya, Tara, Yoni, Grahamatri, Gana, Bhakoot, Nadi of both the bride and groom in the horoscope is called Ashtakoot matching.
(i) Varna (वर्ण) It gets 1 points
In this, varnas are matched according to the Raashi. If the Varna of the bride and groom is higher than
the Varna or having the same Varna, 1 guna is obtained. It is related to the mental aptitudes of the
person.
(ii) Vashya (वश्य) It gets 2 points
It is calculated on the basis of the zodiac signs of the bride and groom. It shows the emotional
connection between the bride and the groom
(iii) Tara (तारा) It gets 3 points
In this, the bride and groom are matched by calculating the birth constellations. It is related to luck.
(vi) Yoni (योनि) It gets 4 points
According to the Vedas, there are a total of 84 lakh species of life in this world. In all these yonis, the
human yoni is considered to be karma predominant. These are calculated on the basis of birth
“nakshatra”. It is related to bride and groom’s nature, behavior, personality and mutual harmony.
(v) Grahamatri (ग्रहमैत्री) – It gets 5 points
In this, the lord planets of the moon signs of the bride and groom are matched. If the lord of the Moon
signs is not a friend, then there is a difference of opinion, due to which a situation of trouble may arise.
Based on this, the status of mutual trust and cooperation is assessed. If it is getting 3 points in this then
you can think of marriage.
(vi) Gana (गण) It gets 6 points
On the basis of birth constellation, three types of Gana have been told, in which Dev Gana,
Manunshya Gana and Rakshasa Gana have been told. If the Gana of the bride and groom is the
same, then it is considered very auspicious. God qualities and human beings are considered equal. If
both of them have Dev Gana and some have Rakshas Gan, then it is not considered auspicious. On the
basis of this, the relationship and harmony with the family is assessed in the coming life.
(vii) Bhakoot (भकूट) It gets 7 points
Bhakoot matching is considered very important. In this, the position of the Moon in the horoscope of
the bride and groom is mutually assessed. If this matching is not done properly, then there is a lack of
love and affection in married life, along with this, problems keep coming in some way or the other in
life.
(viii)Nadi (नाड़ी) It gets 8 points
Nadi has been classified in three ways on the basis of birth Nakshatra of the person. Madhya, Adi and
Antya Nadi. The pulse of the bride and groom should not be the same. It is associated with the birth of
a child.
4. Manglik match
Manglik is considered from both Moon and Lagna Kundli. Often some experts says a person with Moon horoscope as Partial Manglik, but classical facts say that more attention should be paid to the Lagna Kundli. When Mars is in ascendant, fourth, seventh, eighth and twelfth house then Manglik Kundli is formed.
- Some facts which are different from Kundli matching but are very important to decide the marriage
- If the first child is born in Jyeshtha month, then he should not get married in Jyeshtha month. In the scriptures it is considered to be Dwijyeshtha and its prohibition is considered, and its serious consequences have been seen. The eldest boy or girl should not marry the eldest boy or girl in the family. if this happens then good harmony has not been seen in the relationship.
- If the boy or girl is born in the same month (Hindi month) then their marriage should be avoided.
- Should not marry in the same Nakshatra in which the boy or girl was born.
- Mool, Ashlesha, Jyeshtha and Visakha are four such Nakshatras in which the birth of a boy or girl is not good for their in-laws’ side, so the boy or girl born in these Nakshatras should be married in these Nakshatras only.
- If the Mahadasha of both the boy or the girl is ending together in the same year, then that too is not considered suitable for marriage. It has been seen that in such a situation the marriage leads to divorce
Summary
- Do not go to the astrologer by any means to match the horoscope, but show horoscope to the qualified astrologer who actually has knowledge about it.
- The information about your date of birth,place & time etc. in the horoscope should be absolutely correct.